I know now that detachment and letting go are not the same.
Letting go is easily said and attempted.
Detachment is something that has to happen by changing one's beliefs.
It took a total psyche change for me. A dying of a belief that I had tried to keep alive for years.
Detachment takes action - the action of changing one's thoughts - changing one's actions - changing one's beliefs where others in our lives are concerned.
I felt numb for a while after I finally understood the true meaning of detachment from actions that caused anxiety and confusion for others. As a matter fact, I felt numb most of last night.
But this morning, I knew that the belief I had tried to keep alive inside of me for so long, was gone; it had died into the past. In its place is the true belief that was living inside my spirit, waiting to come into my actions, my beliefs.
We have to consider if we are really "walking our talk."
As Richard Bach wrote so long ago in Illusions, "We teach best what we most need to learn."
Listen to the advice you are giving others. If you are giving the same advice to several people; if you are giving the same advice over and over, then this is a message for you.
I've taken my own advice and my world has changed for the better....
Ain't life just full of mysteries and ironies and paradoxes?
Wow, great post! love ya. xoxxox
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